I've got lots of groceries to put away but just need to blog or my head might explode. I went to the new supermarket near us - it's big and there is hardly anyone shopping there - it's very cool, except it will take me a few weeks to get used to a new layout. So, the bagger with a foreign accent takes my groceries out to the car. Of course, I have to ask her where she is from....we don't get a lot of fur'ners here and I'm losing the nack of figuring out where they are from. So, she says South Africa (and of course it's South Africa now that I really listen to her) and I say I moved from NZ, and she says her son is in Auckland......and we talk about NZ (and why in the world I'm living here)....and we talk about her daughter who is here and her other son still in S. Africa....and immediately I'm homesick for NZ......which might seem odd unless you know that there are a bazillion S. Africans living in NZ. You get so used to hearing their accent...they are your friends and neighbors and your boss (the Orthodontist I worked 2 years for is S. African). So, a conversation with a S. African lady transported me straight back to NZ. She is homesick and not sure that living here is all it's cracked up to be...and I get that - and her children are spread around the globe.....and I totally see that in my future. I felt sad for her and sad for me too. Boo Hoo!
So, I've come to the conclusion that our education system is wrong regarding what we require out of our young teens who are smack-dab in the puberty years and have brains that have turned to mush. You see, they should just go back to kindy during this time - you know, paint and play with playdoh and dress-up and run around a lot outside and brush up on their manners and work on remembering to shower and brush their teeth. School would be reading lots of picture books and doing math by cutting their sandwiches into pieces. You know, you have 5 pieces of ham sandwich, if you eat one piece, how many pieces are left? There would ABSOLUTELY be no long division or fractions. Then, when those middle years are over and the ravages of puberty are somewhat behind them, it would be BACK TO THE BOOKS for the high school years. In this way, homeschool mothers around the world would be freed from the tyranny of trying to teach long division and losing their tempers EVERY DAY and yelling and wondering why their are keeping these poor kids at home to be yelled at by their mothers when they could just go the school and be yelled at there by someone who is not their mother!!!!!!!!!! Sigh! I've got to get a grip!
I bought a big honk'n, 14 pound gobbler today to serve for Christmas lunch. We're doing a repeat of last Christmas Day (without our Canadian/NZ friends - BOO HOO!) and hosting lunch for family and friends. As we only do Christmas with my sister's in-laws on Xmas Eve, we had to dream up something fun for Xmas Day - as otherwise we would sit around and fight with each other and have a Grinch old time. So, we have some church friends coming - and probably my sister and family and my Dad. I'm doing potluck as I have no desire to cook for days before - and my kitchen is small - and my oven has only one rack. I'm roasting the bird and making a couple of side dishes - and the others are bringing some more sides and desserts. Now, I have to figure out how to roast a good bird - as, unbelievably, this is only the 2nd turkey I've ever cooked and the first one was not too great. I'm sure Google will have all the information I need. If I'm in the mood, we're going to make homemade crackers (the kind you pull, not the kind you eat - and everyone has to wear the funny hats that we'll put inside them) and a Kissing Bough (or ball). Mad and I read about the Kissing Bough (an old English tradition) in our book of all things Christmas that we're using for Christmas school. Since I choose not to buy a real Christmas tree because of the cost, we can buy some cheap greenery, for the Kissing Bough, and still enjoy the piney smell.
Things I'm loving:
- the cooler weather - though we're still having the odd day up near 30!
- Christmas lights everywhere
- endless Xmas music
- Luke is doing better - praise God for meds
- Craig has work coming out the wazoo......Hahahahahaha, just looked this word up. Here is the definition from Wikipedia. Slang for anus. Originally derived from the Pama-Nyungan languages (the family of Indigenous Australian languages), and thought to refer to the anus of an animal, particularly the kangaroo. I had no idea. Craig has been working longer days here to get his camp hours in, so that he can fit in other jobs. Hurrah for lots of work!